Member asks: Last week, I went out with a guy. He stayed out with me for over 4 hours, we went from drinks to dinner to coffee to walking my dog. I left thinking that we were certainly going out again and excited to do so. Then… I never heard from him again. What do you think happened?
Answer: Unfortunately, people are finicky. This happens a lot, they are having fun in the moment so they stay and connect because it was fun and they are not thinking about the signals their behaviour is sending. However, my guess is when he got home and reviewed the date, he determined that although he had fun, that this was just not what he was looking for in a long-term mate so he never followed up. This definitely seems unfair but people change their minds all the time.